Reclaim Compassion
Finally, coaching that fits your busy schedule, goes where you go, and provides holistic transformation.
Is your parenting journey turning out differently than you imagined?
  • You thought you were a great parent, but now you feel like a failure.
  • You feel like you've tried everything, but nothing moves the needle. Even the professionals don't seem to have answers.
  • You feel isolated and are losing hope.
We invite you to Reclaim Compassion.
Reclaim Compassion for Yourself
Learn how to care for your nervous system, so you can be the stable foundation for your family. You're a good parent doing good work!
Reclaim Compassion for Your Child
Understand your child's behaviors and how to respond to them using brain-based strategies.
Reclaim Hope and Joy for Your Family
It's never too late to begin your family's transformation journey.
Current Pricing
*minimum 3-month commitment.
Group Coaching for Families with Blocked Care and Challenging Behaviors
a program built on faith, neuroscience, and lived experience
 Reclaim Compassion is the place for you if... 
  • You want to overcome blocked care.
  • You value advice rooted in faith, neuroscience, and lived-experience.
  • You want to respond to your child using brain-based strategies.
  • You value time flexibility and don't want to worry about fitting our calendar into your calendar.
  • You crave connection with other parents who can empathize with you but also encourage you.
  • You feel like nothing else is working, but you're not quite ready to give up.
  • You're looking for deep healing and transformation.
Our coaching and community happens on Slack. It's like having experienced coaches and a support group in your back pocket, accessible from a computer or mobile device when you need it wherever you are.
Current Pricing
*minimum 3-month commitment.
Meet the Coaching Team
Lisa Qualls
As an adoptive mom, TBRI Practitioner, Christian spiritual director, and Certified Enneagram Coach, Lisa offers coaching deeply rooted in her faith in Christ. While she enjoys providing parenting guidance, her primary interest is in supporting you, the parent. Adoptive parenting often requires more than we ever imagined. Lisa is here to support you as you walk through the joys and challenges of this unique parenting experience. Lisa is also a birth mom and former foster youth.
Melissa Corkum
As a Safe and Sound Protocol Practitioner, TED Speaker,  Cultivate Connection Facilitator, Certified Enneagram Coach, Melissa specializes in helping parents find brain-based solutions to challenging behaviors so you can laugh more and yell less. She also has a passion for helping adoptees process their stories through the lens of the Enneagram. She is an adoptee and adoptive mom.
Greg Lombard Rea
Greg Lombard Rea M.Div, is an adoptive and bio dad as well as a Trust Based Relational Intervention (TBRI) Practitioner and Enneagram Coach. After over 40 years as a church pastor and preacher, Greg changed careers to support and provide resources for adoptive and foster parents in Kansas and around the world. Since 2019, he has provided compassion, connection and resources for over a thousand adoptive and foster parents through training, coaching, and support groups. Greg has also walked the journey of blocked care and found hope and healing on the other side.  
Nakole Wooley, MSW
Nakole empowers families to cultivate strong connections without feeling a sense of shame and failure. She has a Master’s Degree in Social Work with an emphasis on attachment styles, trauma recovery, parenting with meaningful connection. Additionally, her and her husband are Cultivate Connection Facilitators. She has lived experience that allows her to walk alongside families, supporting them during challenging transitions. She is a kinship-foster parent and adoptive parent, with a heart for families who feel isolated or overwhelmed. Nakole believes there is hope for every family.
Jennifer Hiltebeitel
Jennifer is an adoptee and parent through birth and adoption as well as a Certified Enneagram Coach. She enjoys helping you grow in compassion for yourself and others resulting in healthier patterns and relationships.  
Frequently Asked Questions

Do we have to be an adoptive or foster family to join?
While the majority of our families are adoptive or foster families, all families are welcome. You do have to be a parent.

Does my spouse or co-parent need to join too?
The price is per household. We encourage both parents to participate! There are is a mom-only channel and a dad-only channel inside the program.

Do I have to be a Christian to join?
While this is a faith-based community, all beliefs are welcome.

What if I'm looking for the Safe and Sound Protocol?
The Safe and Sound Protocol is available for members. Details and applications are available in the members area. If you have more questions, click here.

Do you ever meet on Zoom?
There are monthly Zoom gatherings but the majority of coaching happens in Slack.

Why do I have to commit for at least three (3) months?
Unfortunately, there are no quick fixes for blocked care or big behaviors. We are confident that transformation is possible for your family, but it does take time. 

If you have additional questions about the program, click here to send us a message.

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